Beauty is not a number!

I am so tired of me and all other bigger women being labeled on their size! Just because I'm not a size 0-6 doesn't mean that I'm not beautiful. A size 32 is just as beautiful as a size 2. Beauty isn't a size. Beauty is how you carry yourself, how you act, and how you feel. If you feel beautiful then you are. In media you see smaller women being basically WORSHIPED! I've always been bigger and all through out school I was picked on and ridiculed now, I am an adult and I can now say, there is NOTHING wrong with how I look. People can be so cruel to others that don't fit in society's mold of a perfect woman! Ask yourself this, what is a perfect woman? Is she thin or is she bigger? can she cook? Is she tall or is she short? Is she good in bed? NONE of that makes a perfect woman! A perfect woman is that woman who is comfortable with herself. She has a voice, a mind, a personality. She is your mother, your sister, your friend, your girlfriend, your wife, and she is YOU (if you are female).  Why do we let society tell us what we should be? Wanna know what I think? (and even if you don't to bad) I think we are just afraid. Afraid to brake that mold, afraid to change what the world thinks beauty is, afraid to say "I am big and I am beautiful!" We are scared of what EVERYONE thinks of us, from friends and family to people we don't know. We let the world judge us and dictate what is and what isn't pretty/beautiful/sexy. The ONLY person that should care about what we look like is OURSELVES. And every single time there is a commercial or an add in a magazine betraying a beautiful YET small woman it secretly hurts the bigger woman. Every woman, hell every human being, is constantly looking at someone else and thinking/saying, "I want what that person has" or "I wish I looked like she/he does" Why people do we do that? again I ask you why? Why can we not be happy with ourselves? With what we do have? I am in no way, shape or form innocent of that. I work in a local retail store and we sell from XS to 4X and I am constantly catching myself mooning over these cloths that are not my size wishing that I was that size just to get a stupid article of clothing.  We as humans, more importantly the woman of society have to learn top be comfortable with themselves. Except yourself! Like yourself! Love yourself! Because we can't expect someone to love us if we don't love ourselves. Remember the quote from The Help by Kthryn Stockett? "You is kind. You is smart. You is important."- Aibileen Clark The Help.  Apply that to yourself and add "You are perfect just the way you are" (quote from me).

I love each and everyone of you.

Have a Buggy night!